Disabilities at Disney Destinations Rant
Saturday on
Facebook on a rather large Disney Fan Facebook page, I will not name, I was
shocked to see hatred, bigotry and downright ignorance directed at people with
disabilities. One person had the nerve to say that people that had problems
with lines, those with inability to cope with crowds and the obese should not
go to Disney Parks. This ignorant person said life was not fair and that is
where they lose out. This person even went further saying she was saying what
many felt. I told her she was wrong! Let me tell you what I have seen Disney
Parks and Cruises do for people with differing abilities that people call
Disabilities.
I know a family
with two children with disabilities. The elder son has autism and the daughter
has traumatic brain injury. Every trip they have taken to a Disney Park has
increased their daughter’s vocabulary by at least 30%! Their son has learned to
deal with the crowds for a portion of the day. His parents also learned when to
take him back to the hotel. He has even learned to acknowledge people when
spoken too! Would you keep these children from growing to be the best people
they can be?
My best friend is
a fantastic woman with multiple birth defects and other physical issues that
have left her disabled. She is in constant pain. She suffers from depression
caused by the pain she lives with daily. She is an amazingly strong person and
is an inspiration to many! I dare anybody to live with the pain she does for
even one hour and not feel depressed! Her physical activity is limited due to
her disabilities. If not for Disneyland she would have little or no reason to
leave her bed and would most likely fall into a pit of deep depression. She
skips meals to afford the monthly payment for her Disneyland AP. Would you deny
her the joy of going to Disneyland? Would you keep her from having a reason to
live? Would you deny the other guests and Cast Members at the park the smile
she gives them while at the parks?
My father had
polio as a child (back in the 1930’s), lost a leg to cancer in his 30’s and
still raced boats, cars and dirt bikes well into his 60’s! When he lost a lung
to cancer in his 70’s (he never smoked) and suffered several strokes he could
no longer travel or do the things he loved. He was confined to his bed or
recliner and could only get out for limited trips on his ECV. He said he wanted
to die. Then he found Disney! He found they accommodated him without making him
feel subhuman! He found he could enjoy time with his family and feel equal to
everybody around him! He continued to have strokes and suffered many setbacks
but his trips to Disney gave him a reason to get better and get out of bed! We believe
his frequent trips to Disneyland and thinking about past and future trips kept
him alive for 8 years longer than without Disneyland! Would you say let a sick
old man just die instead of giving him a few more years of joy with his family?
My daughter has a
genius IQ (not mom talking but doctors) and ADHD. Normal School was impossible
for her. There was a great amount of trauma in her young life and I took her
out of school to homeschool her. We did much of our schooling at DLR! Walk down
Main Street and talk about life at the turn of the last century. Discuss the
development of transportation, electricity and commerce. Stop in for a history
lesson with Great Moments with Mr. Lincoln. Read the original Peter Pan, watch
the movie and then ride the ride. How was the story told differently? What was
deleted, added or changed? How would you do it? I could go on for many posts
about the educational benefits of Disney! In fact I have in my Edutainment series
of the past. Disney help her heal from the trauma and allowed us to educate her
in ways not possible otherwise. Would you deny her the healing and education?
My husband is severely
ADHD and has minor brain damage from being electrocuted. In truth he was declared
brain dead after 45 minutes of CPR but he woke up talking when they took him
off life support to let him die the next day! Because of the electrocution he
has an underlying current of anger in him. (Natural physiological response to
being electrocuted.) It also made his ADHD worse!! He controls it well 99% of
the time. In 15 ½ years since his accident I’ve seen him totally lose control
only a handful of times. BUT! Put him in a 2 hour long line at a Disney Park
and he starts to lose it! It is not fun for him, anyone with him or anybody
around us when he gets upset. He does not even realize he is saying the things
he does or that he is physically moving around. Disney has played a huge part
in his healing. He has learned to be more patient in lines. After the accident
he could not wait 10 minutes for anything without getting agitated. Now he can
wait 30 minutes and sometimes 45 on an extra good day! Praise God!!!! Yes we
use the GAC Card but only use the Fastpass lines not going to the front of the
lines as we could! If the regular line is shorter than 30 minutes we use it. Depression
was also a major aftereffect to his accident. He goes to the parks and sees the
people having fun and he smiles! Going to the parks has helped him stay on a
positive side of life! Would you deny him the joy and healing he finds nowhere
else?
Those with special
needs such as the ones I’ve listed above should be given a GAC card. The GAC is
not a one size fits all! If the person can’t wait in a line due to a
physical/emotional disability fine! Give them an alternative! If the
wheelchair/ECV fits the line and they can physically/emotionally handle the
line then they should. For those with bad knees that can’t do stairs, and we
all know some lines have stairs they should get a GAC card that passes the
stairs. Stay in the regular line until the bypass to the stairs. There are some
people that can’t be in the sun. Disney allows them to wait in the shade until
their time to load. This is accommodation not special privileges!
Disneyland is a
special exception to the wheelchair/ECV in line rule. Disneyland was built before
the ADA laws so the wheelchairs/ECVs of today do not fit in the lines. Due to
the size limitations of the park the lines can’t be altered to accommodate them
either! That is why there must be alternative entrances for them. The GAC gives
access to rides where otherwise the person and their party may not have been
able to go on the ride.
Living with a
disability is lifelong battle for “normalcy”. You don’t feel “normal” or
accepted. You begin to feel you don’t deserve respect or fair treatment. I know
many with special needs that say that Disney Parks is one of the few places
they can feel “normal” and accepted. The Cast Members never rush them to load
and do their best to accommodate. They are treated with the respect that
everybody deserves. They are not singled out or looked down upon because of
their disabilities. They are not belittled because of their physical/emotional
limitations. Special ride vehicles have been made for some rides so people in
wheelchairs don’t even have to transfer! This is for the disabled persons benefit
as well as to speed up loading and therefor limit delays for ALL guests. Is every
ride accessible for ALL forms of disability? NO!!! Nor should they be! Some rides
are not for people with some disabilities. Disney does it’s best to accommodate
and include as many people as possible and it is the few cheating guests that
have caused problems! It is also the ignorant and cold hearted that do not see
how a trip to Disney can change the life of a disabled person that cause
problems.
For those of you
who still think that being disabled is easy or that the disabled should be
happy just sitting at home I’ve got a couple of exercises for you. I’ll leave
out the few choice words I’d love to say. Try for one day to not walk. When you
want something to eat or drink wait for someone to get it for you. When you
need to use the restroom wait for someone to help you. When someone wants to
talk to you have them stand and look down at you sitting in a chair. See the
view from a wheelchair bound disabled person. It is not pretty! It feels “unequal”
like you are not on the same level as those around you. Just be thankful you
don’t also have the pain that many in wheelchairs feel. Better yet try to watch
TV sitting in that chair with someone standing in front of you. Like the view? Thought
not. Looking at someone’s butt when you want to see something else is no fun. That
is the view of the parades and fireworks that many in wheelchairs get. Blindfold
yourself and have someone guide you around for a day. Depend on your guide to
not let you trip or run into something and to describe what is going on around
you. Let your ears and hands be your eyes. I guarantee you will not see the
life of a disabled person the same again! Do it for a week and I can assure you
that you will want to get out of the house and have some fun! Just remember YOU
can walk or see when the experiment is over. Others are not as blessed!
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